When It comes to a wedding many women fantasize about it their whole life and want it to be the most perfect day ever and they have all these things that they want to be done ignorer to make the day absolutely perfect. When it comes to the white wedding we already associate this between a man and a woman and that kids are supposed to come after the wedding but if they are already involved its not usually with the thought that they are co parenting at all and the modern family of size has also gotten bigger. The roles of both gender are very much already pre applied on how the man must be masculine and the women be gentle and very submissive to the husband.We also mix up ideals of relationships and marriages with reality of marriages they think that there marriage will be perfect and the day has to be just as perfect but in reality that is not what is going to happen. We look at how society has evolved many things have also changed with the same sex marriage now and the ideological wedding more people are starring to get away from and more people want to create what genuinely will make them happy and having the biggest wedding and wearing the prettiest white dress is not ideal to everyone.