04/18/20: Sexuality and Gender

When it comes to gender we are pre segregated when we are in adolescence and we transition into the school world we are told that girls play with girls and boys play with boys. Slowly do they both intertwine and mix and that when sharing comes into play. The morals of gender come into play this when girls are taught to be gentle and the little boys are the more rough ones but if they can both mutually get along that is when they share somewhat when they meet somewhere in the gender middle. A boy isn’t supposed to play with barbies and play house but rather he is too play with cars or legos what does that tell us ? Women are at home and men are usually out constructing those are pre sexualized roles. After being put into this situation they then transition to more of a wider spectrum of society at this point kids of both genders play together but the morals still follow girls think boys are nasty and the boys are just boys. There are gender arrangements and they are already instilled that a Girl and boy go together and if you think other wise a boy is there to tell you that if a guy doesn’t like a girl they are labeled with homophobic labels. What taught them that ? society. We rarely cross gender because we are gender isolated and I feel that there is huge gap between sexuality and gender because before they would go hand In hand but now society wants to view them separate. Children’s world have changed over the years me being a child is way different then being a child now society has evolved into a way more accepting society. 20 years ago I never heard of transgenders and now in kids schools they are getting read books about being transgender and how to accept is and why to accept it. Everything is due to how society has changed and I’m excited to see what is yet to come with the next society change of acceptance there will be.